THE PENDLETONS

WE'RE MOVING....

2011-01-29T23:15:00.000-08:00

To a new blogspot:

PEANUTS and LACE

Please follow us over...

I know it is a lot to ask.

I have had this other blog for over a year. Can you believe that?

Well it probably isn't a big deal to ya'll, but in my mind it has been there.

A constant reminder... you need to start a new blog.

I hope to use this new "spot" and name as a place for more communication between me and the world.

I want it to be a place of authenticity, emotions, stories, and not just a day to day account of things.

A place where our journey is recorded.

I love my mother-in-law's goal for this year...

not to just survive but thrive and enjoy.

Here is where I will begin to create my world.

A constant reminder of the small things...

my darling peanut{s}--

and lace.

I love this new App.

He is dreaming right now.

And dreamy...

Caution: The blog isn't up to par YET.

But I figure if I wait to make the move until it is, then it would be another 2-3 years.

Family Time

2010-12-09T22:13:00.001-08:00

I was looking forward to the Thanksgiving the moment I found out James wanted to make the drive up to see the Katschke family in Wyoming. It is definitely not a pleasant drive during the winter time. Truthfully, it is down right scary and LONG. The first all day road trip for Miss Avery -- a whopping 9+ hours.

And I was so looking forward to it.

Time to spend with Mr. Pendleton and just be...

No Work, school, errands, lights (though we did help hang theirs), etc.

Just time to play games, eat, snack, watch football, and laugh.

I was running low on quality time with Mr. P and lil miss. I needed it.

Thanksgiving was exactly how I hoped it would be.

Now, we are back to our hectic work/school/work routine. For example, as I sit here and type, Mr. Pendleton is gone -- working -- and Avery is in dreamland. And I am just thinking....

How grateful I am to have such loved ones like James and Avery. They really brighten up my life, and they know it. They can feel it through my constant kisses and squeezes, and hopefully hear it with the frequent "I love You"(s).

(Yep, she is a ball of joy)

That is what you get when you mix me and Mr. Pendleton together.

It makes sense.

***

I am turning 26 soon. That feels so old. probably because it is. I am having a hard time swallowing that fact. Just wanted to share.

Sweet dreams.

1-2-3... Laughter.

2010-11-10T21:48:00.000-08:00

Those big brown eyes get me every time.

Count it off for lil miss... ONE, TWO, THREE:

Gratitude.

2010-11-06T20:52:00.001-07:00

I spend a lot of my time "pushing papers" for my job, now a days. Some days it eats me up inside. A lot of the time it eats me up. But, today.... today is different. I was able to spend time with my lil miss. Time we spent walking hand in hand, sharing kisses, and discovering.

(Miss Avery on "her" turtle @ the mall.

She watched him like a hawk, and wouldn't let ANYONE on him.)

A good mother would have probably tried to correct this behavior and teach a lesson in sharing.

I stood back and just smiled. I was proud that she was standing up for herself.

It was endearing.

I am grateful for days like these.

PS I am also grateful that Mr. P is working hard so that we may have many more moments like today together in the future.

hockey bliss

2010-11-04T18:01:00.000-07:00

Lil miss Avery loves watching the players bang each other into the glass.

A couple of times they got pretty aggressive with one another.

I have to admit that is my favorite part about hockey, when the gloves come off.

The game gets interesting.

Though I am not a fan, when Mr. Pendleton is involved.

When lil miss wasn't being entertained by the loud bashing of bodies against the glass,

she was wrestling in her own fight.

Getting some fruit snacks out of the wrapper proves to be a challenge.

When you have cute stubby little fingers, those pesky treats can give you a tough time.

She always seems to succeed... probably because she has some help from me.

The games are usually during Avery's bedtime (9:30), but we love it when we can attend.

It's fun to see Mr. Pendleton strut his stuff on ice.

PS. I couldn't get any good shots of Mr. P for two reasons... moving target and glass.

I need some basic pointers, Carly.

You definitely are a PRO with the camera.

Pink Butterfly fairy and the potty.

2010-11-01T21:38:00.001-07:00

Cousins being cousins.

Nana is in the process of being potty trained, and Avery wanted in on the action.

Happy Halloweenie

2010-11-01T21:21:00.001-07:00

Halloween at the Pendleton House...

Some Jack-o-lanterns

Scary smooching...

And the best part... PUMPKIN CARVING.

And of course, what is the fall season without a little bit of caramel and apples?

Self-proclaimed: NUMBER ONE TREAT (anytime of the year).

Hope yours was a good as ours.

P.S. James worked till eight delivering pizza's... and I played the game of tricking kids into thinking no one was home.

I didn't know where James put the candy to hand out:(

It was so relaxing and besides only two groups of kids actually came by even though the lights were out.

P.S.S. We headed off to Jeff and Carly's to hang out with James family later in the evening.

A week of taking it easy...

2010-10-17T00:46:00.000-07:00

No one does it better than...

Lil Miss Avery.

Soaking in some sun rays on her chair.

New "adventures"

2010-10-17T00:13:00.001-07:00

A new hobby. Passion.

Maybe even business venture?

Time will tell. It will be lots of HARD work.

But, I can do hard things.

One of my "many" new mottos.

*********

Last Saturday I went to a class to help me learn illustrator.

I am in love... with this cutie (Avery) PLUS illustrator.

I have so many projects floating around in my mind.

Hopefully, I can get them out on print.

PS I know, long over due for a post. A few are on their way. Promise.

AVERY turns ONE

2010-08-25T22:29:00.001-07:00

It's been ONE YEAR since this happened. We had to celebrate in S*T*Y*L*E, right?

Mr. Pendleton gave me some pointers-- SIMPLE and sweet.

And he did put emphasis on the simple. He knows me too well.

So I threw out the ideas of making handmade mini books for everyone,

doing a book theme with a birthday cake to match. I wanted to highlight Miss Avery's book fetish.

Instead I took Mr. Pendleton's advice... And it couldn't have turned out been better!!

Lil Miss turned one... and she couldn't have more spunk.

She definitely enjoyed her birthday to say the least.

Who ever said a kid's first birthday is more for the parents?

She loved the food:

Hotdogs- stolen from Nana's plate

watermelon- given to her by Grandma Pendleton

Pineapple- stolen from logan's plate

Extra large cupcake- wasn't too messy or interested in it

cheese puffs- given to her by me right before opening gifts. I know what was I thinking?

We thought for sure she would LOVE opening gifts.

At that moment, she was more interested in the cheese puffs.

So the cousins (Logan & Nana) and Katrice helped instead.

By the end, her interest surfaced so she began to help by pulling off the bows.

She loves all of her gifts.

She drags her teddy bear and Eor around the house with her.

Tears apart her connect-a-bugs as soon as I put them together.

Sits down to "read" her Lil Miss size books.

And will definitely be the fashionista during this fall season with her adorable wardrobe.

Grandma Pendleton had the great idea to play

Ring-around-the-rosy.

Grandma and Lori lead the bunch in a few rounds with Logan, Nana, and Avery.

After they were tuckered out, Cheslie and Katrice took over.

It was probably one of the highlights of the night for Miss Avery.

We were so glad to share the day with our loved ones...

and that Avery took a nap before the party.

Thanks for celebrating with us!!

Attendees: Grandma Dot, Gloria, Bill, Katrice, Grandma Pendleton, Grandma Smith, Jeff, Carly, Logan , Savannah (Nana), Geneve, Ryan, soon-to-be (Connor), Lori, Cheslie, Landon, and Julie.

Favorite moment of the night:

James and Lil Miss snuggling together, whinding down from the day.

His content stare and her big yawn... and of course-- a belly rub. Love it.

Pig-tails+ plus

2010-07-25T20:38:00.000-07:00

I feel as though this summer has been going in slow motion. We have been out here for a

while, though it seems. James sums it up well: "the days drag-on, but weeks fly by during summer sales". There is so much truth to that statement. It almost feels like ground hog day. The summer sale schedule gives you the opportunity to "perfect" a daily routine, but I have not. That is a story for another time. What I want to talk about is pig-tails.

The fact that Lil Miss has changed from a small infant (8 months) crawling from here to there into a (almost) one year old walker with teeth- four to be exact- and all.

I miss my baby.

The past couple of weeks with the quick visit to utah and all the moving has been a little "hard" on Miss avery. She got sick (viral infection in the throat) and then sick again (a cold from a nothing younster on the plane). Needless to say she has barely started to feel better. On the positive side she LOVE LOVES to snuggle. All day long, she could only muster the energy to crawl up in my lap and lay and lay. I was/am in heaven. She gave up the whole rocking me to sleep thing by 4 months. So naturally, I obliged to her requests. We might have a problem on her hands when she feels better. I am sure we will, but so worth it.

***

The main purpose for this post is that:

1)its been a while and 2)Lil Miss is 11 months old TODAY.

I cant believe it....

in only 1 month I will stop referring to months when

asked my little baby's age and be forced to answer with 1 YEAR.

I am crying. Really.

***

I just want to document lil miss:

1) she smiles and smile and smiles

2) Lil miss and mommy spend lots of time together

3) she goes down for the night without a fight

4) her milk has to be warm-- STILL (I know its a little excessive)

5) she has long fingernails because her mother doesn't have to courage to cut them

Once i cut James nails when we first were married and cut his finger, been scared ever since. Understandable, right?

6) she loves to play hide and seek.

Usually, I am the hider and she finds me.

7) LOVES bath time and Pool time

8) REALLY loves other kids especially her cousins.

9) Began to walk at 10 months

10) Her hair grows only in the back-- and is long enough for PIG-TAILS.

Mommy and daddy couldn't be happier.

We have so much love for her sweet spirit and chubby cheeks.

thoughts.

2010-07-07T15:47:00.000-07:00

I am sitting here on the couch as little Miss plays in dreamland. The laundry is all over our bed, every toy has seem to find a place on our living room floor, and the bottom cabinets are opened with their contents spewed over the kitchen tile.... and I am sitting here.

Sitting here pondering.

The last couple of days I have gone through so many emotions and feelings. None of them could be named by anger or frustration, yet the exact word cannot be found. The fluctuation in my emotions probably has something to do with mother nature's visit this week or just being a mother--- you WILL get a lot more emotional after childbirth and it doesn't seem to lessen through the months. Honestly, you will probably never be the same. You won't be. Here are my thoughts: (from Sunday morning on)

complete gratitude during our life after death Sunday school lesson
pride for our American heritage while watching the sky light up
deep sadness for a great loss in our family (here and here)
worry for my family and their feelings
joy in the thought of Grandpa meeting his son
tenderness towards my husband-- who doesn't cry (at least not often)
insecurity with myself
desire to fix
happy memories during the two short years with my only grandfather
confusion about what I am suppose to do or feel

While I write this, I am unsure if I should just hit delete or finish. It is hard to loose someone who means so much to you... and sometimes harder when they mean even more to another. How do you help a love one cope and cope yourself? I don't know what to do. For now, I type.

I know when my grandmother died during high school, I was mute and didn't want to talk. Maybe me and Mr. Pendleton are more alike than I think.... so maybe I do know. I will just be. Be the one that I needed during my hard time. Hopefully, that will be enough... I think it will.

I must finish the packing and cleaning before little miss leaves dreamland.

I read once, that it takes courage to write. I find that interesting... and so true.

A wall.

2010-06-27T19:49:00.000-07:00

I have hit a wall. Not literally of course, but kinda.

Well it seems as though I have- lacking in creativity.

The creative juices have stopped.

I could just post pictures of Miss Avery.

Those pictures bring most people to check out this blog.

Yep. I will just do that until the wall leaves.

So no creativity-- just chubby checks. ENjoy.

Mr. Pendleton has left for training.

He got to boogie board this evening.

I rock the Wii.

And yes, I kill James at the wake-boarding game.

Who would have thought?

Father's Day

2010-06-20T08:45:00.000-07:00

It is James' FIRST(officially) FATHER'S DAY.
Last year we were awaiting the arrival of Miss Avery.

(The above picture is a frame that "Avery" made for Mr. Pendleton)
We are so glad to be able to share this day with Mr. Pendleton.
***
Daddy. The strength and love that you bring into
our family provides a beckon of peace.
It is the small moments of laughter and joy
while playing after a long day of work.
It is the sleepless nights of holding me close.
It is the smiles and hugs.
It is the tender touch and soft voice.
It is you that makes all the difference.
-Avery Lyn
Happy Father's day to all Fathers!
**This goes to the men who are father-like figures as well.

Swim time. Abby and Sam.

2010-06-16T20:43:00.000-07:00

It is Hot. Really hot + humidity.
It calls for a swim day.

It's even better to enjoy the waves with friends.
We went with Auntie Lyn and my friend, Samantha.
** She was my bridesmaid (of course).
We have been friends since elementary school.
Now we have children of our own.
Lifetime friendships bring a sense of "home" to any place.

Lil Miss gets a kick out of Miss Abby.

Anti-Balloons Festival.

2010-06-14T18:02:00.000-07:00

(The beautiful morning excitement for some Hot-air Balloons)

Our Morning:

4:30 am- Wake up & shower
5:00 am- Get Lil Miss ready
5:15 am- Leave the house
6:30 am- Realize we were lost (Suppose to be at the Midway airport)
6:50 am- Finally got to the Airport for the festival
6:55 am- See the trucks with the balloon baskets driving past us (must be setting up)
7:00 am- Not too many cars and parking FREE (suppose to be $10, score!)
7:10 am- Lay down the blankets, check on Lil Miss (still sleeping)
7:15 am- Lyn goes to the Freebirds vendor to get us breakfast burritos
7:20 am- Man comes on the Loud speaker...

"Some of you might have seen the balloon trucks passing you as you came in,
USUALLY this is a GOOD sign which means they are going to set up to launch.
BUT, this time it means they are driving back to their hotels.
Sorry for the inconvenience but due to strong winds the balloon show is canceled".

(The empty sky where there should be balloons)

7:22 am- The crowd leaves and Lil Miss wakes up

7:25 am- Lyn comes back with the burritos... "do we have to move, where did everyone go"?

Me: "Everyone left. They canceled it because of the wind".
(Note: There was a VERY slight wind)
She had missed the announcement.

(These burritos are so yummy. Equivalent to Chipotle or BETTER. Yep, it's true)
So we sat on our blanket, eating our burritos, and
enjoying the sun trying to peek through the clouds.

(Our blanket and an empty stage)

8:00 am- we left the empty airport/field
9:15 am- Return home
9:16 am- Lyn takes a nap
9:17 am- Try to "nap" but realize Avery is up for the day.
9:19 am- Avery and I go on a walk to Thomas and Sonia's house around the corner.

Our day begins.
***
No nap ALL day long.
When noon rolled around it felt like it should have been FIVE already.
Needless to say a VERY long day, but the weather was pleasant with a slight wind.

Fort Worth Zoo

2010-06-11T16:58:00.000-07:00

I was so impressed with this zoo.

Some zoos are just caged animals with metal fences and concrete.

The Fort Worth Zoo seems to provide authentic habitats for the animals.

The animal exhibits were so interesting with facts and the paths shaded.

They even had a bird exhibit that you could feed the birds.

Avery loved the birds and turtles.

She giggled with joy trying to reach out and touch their silky feathers.

We kept ourselves hydrated and cool the entire time.

What a joy to see lil miss exploring the sights.

Too bad the zoo was closed when we visited Texas with Mr. Pendleton last April.

We will just have to plan another visit together.

Flying AMERICAN.

2010-06-10T20:47:00.001-07:00

We made a trip down to DALLAS to visit some of my family and give James some "guy" time.

I think James was done with the guy bonding before we even boarded the plane,

but the tickets we bought and bags packed so off we went.

The plane left an hour late. I was just praying that Lil Miss would sleep the entire trip.

It was the first time I was traveling with little miss solo.

I even used the "family" restrooms- very spacious and exciting.

It's a strange thought that I will be a regular visitor to those stalls for the next decade or two.

People are drawn to Lil Miss. As I have already stated before, Avery can work a crowd.

While we were walking down the terminal to the gate... she began to scream.

The louder the cry, the redder my face became.

The people around had to be thinking-

"oh great, we have to ride on the airplane with THAT baby".

We boarded the plane, finished a bottle in 3 seconds flat, and then....

For about an hour- HEAVENLY.

After lil miss woke up the stewardess took her to help pass out the drinks.

She even made a trip to the cockpit to meet the pilots.

It was a good flight. I was very nervous, hopefully the return home will be similar.

She is walking.

She is also patiently waiting for our plane.

She has about as much patience as I do.

We are both working on it.

Walk. Drive.

2010-06-08T20:15:00.000-07:00

While I have learned to drive a 5-speed, this little one learned to take a few steps.

That is correct.... Little miss is beginning to walk.

And what fun we are having teaching her.

I was able to drive all the way to TJ Maxx. That is something to brag about.

Washington D.C.

2010-06-07T20:39:00.000-07:00

This past weekend, we took a trip up to the Capitol (or is it capital?).

It was fun to get out and see some sights with the gang+grandpa.

It wore all of us out.

Talk about achy feet and ankles.

{What a beautiful thing- the American Flag of course}

We even got the chance to see some gi-normous gems and stones, like the hope diamond.

One topaz stone was about 120,000 carats.

Hope you had a wonderful weekend as well!

Summer Baseball

2010-06-04T14:04:00.000-07:00

"Hello to all, from lil miss".

Memorial day. Baseball

2010-05-31T20:30:00.001-07:00

We spent our memorial day basking in the sun.

A little bit of the American sport (baseball) is always fun as well.

Nothing says summer like Baseball.

I particularly love the Dippin Dots part of the game.

Friday makeup. shopping. water.

2010-05-29T13:38:00.000-07:00

The pool is open.

We need to get little miss a hat to protect those chubby cheeks from the sun.

Miss Avery is growing so much and most of her clothes are too small.

We went to Old Navy and they are having a sale on their clearance items.

It was awesome getting playful smocks for little miss at 75% off.

{two shirts, pair of white capris, three summer dresses (two with ruffles), and one goodnight moon book totally $25.66}

Enjoy your weekend! We are playing in the sun.

Grandpa P is coming to visit.

kickball.PIZZA.

2010-05-27T20:13:00.001-07:00

It was a beautiful day.

So as an office, we played kickball.

I would have played but I am out of contacts.

Glasses+ball potentially flying at the face= no good.

So I enjoyed the sidelines with the wives and little ones.

They have been performing well as an office so Manager Marky ordered pizza.

I never knew it would be difficult to convince papa john's to deliver to a field.

They were concerned with the diver's safety. I understand maybe at midnight but noon, really?

Overall the boys are holding their own, and Virginia will probably be one if not the top selling office.

We are so proud of Mr. Pendleton's hard work.

This office is A LOT less drama, which we love.

One of the sales reps wrote this on a beam in the pavilion.

It will be easy to figure out who wrote it. Oh well.

Here's a close up of Miss Avery.

This is for those that are a few hundred miles away.

We miss you. Love Pendletons.

{{POST edit: I forgot to mention the "experience" I had yesterday driving. So our car is a five-speed/manual. Meaning: I don't know how to drive it. But Mr. Pendleton had so much confidence in me- he has been riding with me twice to practice- and said I would be perfectly fine driving on busy streets and hwy. So I decided to take Mr. Sentra to TJ Maxx, which is about 10 miles away across the main freeway and entirely on busy streets.

Result: Five car stalls, loud grinding noises, and a bad smell later, I called Dani to come save us and left Mr. Sentra in a parking lot. I probably made it about 2 miles. It seems as though I am a PRO at 1st and 2nd gears, but still need some coaching through 3rd and 4th. Avery slept through the whole ordeal.}}

**It will probably take me a few weeks to get back on that particular horse again.

A day

2010-05-26T20:38:00.001-07:00

Sometimes I sit back at the end of the day, and ask myself what have I accomplished today.

So here is a few of our accomplishments:

breakfast {how about some handpicked strawberries}

play with a few toys and read through some books

take a nap

Eat some lunch... how about some yogurt or fruit

go on a walk to take out the trash

run a few errands or go to the park

take a nap

wake up to help mommy fix dinner

daddy comes up {daddy=playtime}

bath time

nightly bottle then bed

{Dad finds creative ways to play with Avery... such as train with an empty box}

The beauty of it all...

I get to see it through the eyes of my child.

{9} Stats

2010-05-25T20:14:00.001-07:00

Here are some stats of Lil miss at 9 months:

She keeps us on our toes and it couldn't make us happier.

She loves her.... sleep and bath time.

Says... dada and mumm.

Her favorite food... fresh strawberries, bananas, and go-gurt (thanks aunt Amy for the idea).

She takes two walks a day with mommy.... one in the afternoon and other at dusk.

She prefers... standing to sitting.

She rather... jabber than stare.

She loves to flip through... books.

She smiles at strangers.

{They all love it too!}

She is our pride and joy.

Divinity

2010-05-24T07:38:00.000-07:00

This past week I have been thinking (secretly) a lot about families.

Maybe its because I get to spend so much time with little miss Avery.

I feel so much desire and obligation to teach and exemplify the knowledge and truth I know.

This sunday, our church lessons hit the spot. I love when this happens.

It seems to happen to me a lot... I call it prayers being answered.

Sunday school lesson: Eternal Families.

Relief Society Lesson: Talk- Tell Me the Stories of Jesus by Neil L. Anderson.

I know the truths shared in these messages are set forth to guide us and provide light in this world. I am so grateful for the continual revelation and guidance received personally and through our inspired leaders.

I have been asked this question a few times in the recent months.

"Why are you the way you are... how did you turn out the way you did?"

If you don't know some of my story (childhood/adolescence) I will summarize:

I came from a single parent home that was headed by a hardworking mother. She tried her best in raising two young girls and teach us valuable lessons such as charity, forgiveness, hard work, love, understanding, service, love of learning, and many more characteristics that a young child needs. She had lots of help from our extended family and friends. And in the end of this terribly difficult task, two beautiful young ladies emerged. The parts that I decided not to elaborate on were the long nights of financial worry, the painful experiences with dad-like figures, abuse, the struggle with depression, alcohol, and drugs, and the feeling of guilt. So if you were shown a glimpse of just some experiences that my childhood held: I would be classified as a latchkey child that probably wouldn't have success at healthy relationships and happiness.

This is far from the truth.

I have a loving husband, beautiful daughter, and tons of extended family

that provide so much love and daily examples of charity.

So why am I the way I am? I know of my divine role, that I have a Father in Heaven that loves and watches over me, and a brother, Jesus Christ, that died for my sins. That He felt the pains and suffering of all the world on His shoulders and carried it so that we may be perfected and whole. I have vivid memories as a 12 year old girl kneeling in my closet when I felt the world around me in chaos pleading for peace. And it came, every time. When I felt that there was no one in my life I could really connect to and understand my thoughts and heart, I knew my Heavenly Father did and does. We are divine. It is this understanding and knowledge that has helped me to rewrite my story. I was able to marry in the temple to a wonderful man who upholds and honors his Priesthood. Granted we are not perfect, but we know that we have chosen one another for eternity, and that warms the soul. I have the opportunity to experience Motherhood and remember the sacred obligations that come with such role.

Though, I was unable to experience having Priesthood worthy men in my childhood, I am now surrounded by them. The kindness, light, and wisdom shared by my father-in-law and Grandpa Smith are true examples of Christ.

{Grandpa Smith and Avery}

As I type this, Grandpa Smith is in the process of having brain surgery.

Our prayers are with him.

The Gospel in my life makes all the difference.

Chesterfield Berry Farm.

2010-05-21T16:46:00.000-07:00

Today was wonderful and the weekend is looking bleak, as far as the weather.

We had to get out and enjoy some sunshine before clouds moved in and rain took control.

While sitting in a Walmart parking lot waiting for Mr Pendleton to exchange his pull-up bar,

I found a coupon for a cute place where you could pick your own strawberries.

I absolutely loved the idea- picking a veggie/fruit right off the stem. I even asked during our bridal/tool bash at Raylynn and Dalene's if I could pick some veggies from their garden. I was delighted. I want a garden. Not a huge-take all day to maintain type- but one big enough to fill the need to perform such simple task as harvesting. One day. For now, I had this Berry Farm.

Lil Miss devoured the strawberries. She would have eaten a whole row if I hadn't stopped her. She had red juice everywhere and those sticky tiny fingers kept reaching for more. Let's just say she loved it.

Usually lil miss is not a fan of grass, but she dealt with it.

She wanted to get her hands on those red gooey delights.

{Mommy and Lil miss on the trip back}

She had everyone on the hayride smiling at her face.

Pure contentment.

The lil strawberry monster expressed her dismay when we

left the fields to enjoy other parts of the farm.

She giggled at the bunnies when they came up to the fence sniffing for food. Their little furry noses tickled her hand. The strawberries were soon forgotten. Every now and then Lil miss would spot a red smashed particle on the ground and off she went.

It was kinda gross.

But man, did she love them.

The last part of the journey after seeing the pigs, turkey (yuck), sheep, bunnies,

and goats we headed to the barrel train.

She stood up the entire time in our train cart. If she can stand, she will, and does.

One of my favorite pictures of the day, was on the John Deere tractor.

She was making her "oh" face and sat on the tractor all by herself.

**Don't worry I had Dani standing by in case she began to slip while I snapped as many shots as I could take.

It was a fun day.

Thanks for an afternoon of enjoyment, Chesterfield Berry farm.

We will be back. Hopefully there will still be some strawberries left to pick.

The things we love.

2010-05-20T21:09:00.001-07:00

{Avery loves the outdoors... hopefully we get sunny skies very soon}

It is always amusing to see what grabs Avery's attention.

Her favorite "toys" range from playing cards to iphones.

Yes, I know we give our little one face cards to chew on.

You should see the looks that we receive during church.

What can I say? She takes after her mom and dad with a love for card games.

{Yes, You are correct. Lil Miss is playing with the nose thing.}

***

Somethings you just can't explain or even understand yourself.

This might be one.

Oh Boy.

2010-05-19T15:27:00.000-07:00

Today, I have babies on the mind.
It is crazy how "big" Avery seems now a days.
I want to see this movie, Babies.
They're so heavenly.
This is NOT a pregnancy announcement.

But then I look into those big brown eyes
and know somewhere down the road we will think about it.

But there are a few people who are expecting... By DECEMBER.

Geneve & Ryan----------- BOY
Dani & Jon --------------- BOY
Tori & Joe---------------- BOY
Allison & Mason --------- BOY
Jessica & Jack------------ BOY
Jessica & Matt------------ BOY
Kelsie & Garrett---------- BOY
Sara & Jordan------------ GIRL
Jana & Clint-------------- GIRL
Hillary & Jordan------ TWINS
Haley & Dave------------- ???
Emily & Adam------------ ???
Yjasming & Mike--------- ???
Liz & John----------------- ???

It looks like we are finally going to even out the males to females.

Ratio of boys to girls: 7/2
That should definitely help.
James missed the boat on this one.
Hopefully, next time around we can join the bandwagon and have a boy.
For now, this princess is perfect for our trio.

Today lil miss had a battle with the camera. The camera won.
Maybe I should ease up on the picture taking and put the camera away.
Every time I leave the camera in reach of lil miss she can't resist but to pull it down.
This time the casualty was Avery's foot/toe nail. Ouch.
***
One princess band-aid later, the tears quit.
And smiles all around.
She allowed me to comfort her and I got the opportunity to rock her to sleep.
It was blissful.

**Edited: So I realized that a lot of these soon to be mom's have blogs.

And they all are so very beautiful so I think you should take a look. Click the grey names.

Rainman. Dinner.

2010-05-18T09:18:00.001-07:00

It was a peaceful day.

The pool STILL isn't opened yet-

planning on it to provide the majority of our entertainment this summer.

I found this awesome store near our place, Five below.

I had a cart full of stuff to purchase, and

the ONLY thing that survived my-

"I don't really need this"- eliminations was a baby float for lil miss.

We can't wait for the rains to subside and the sun to kiss our skin.

Speaking of rain...

Who is the scary man in the rain suit?

***

Don't fret... it's Mr. Pendleton.

Yesterday, I sent him on his way armed with the umbrella I brought from utah.

He came back soaked... we had to get reinforcements.

Off to Walmart. We picked up this outfit.

They had a bright blue one and forest/army green.

My opinion: the other two colors made it look like

Mr. Pendleton was trying to get away with a crime or something.

It was a plastic suit blocking any DNA trace back to him. I laughed.

The black one was the ONLY option.

{Lil Miss and Mr. Pendleton spending time checking area}

Lil Miss is such a happy baby.

She is always smiling unless she needs something.

I love how reactive and affectionate this little doll is to almost everything.

{The best part is she LOVES the camera.}

She cracks a smile within seconds... gotta love that.

And of course, after dinner we must experience the chair issue.

Lil Miss has a sense of adventure and loves to crawl under the chairs.

Then, the crying began...

Tonight she was able to figure her way out without mommy's help.

Note: I was busy snapping pictures, but I usually come to her rescue.

She was delighted with her accomplishment.

Good Job, doll face.

One day weekends

2010-05-17T08:59:00.001-07:00

Most people complain that their weekend is WAY too short.

Well, try having only a ONE day weekend.
Yep... that's right.
For James, he has Sunday.
Lil miss and I started ours on Saturday morning like most people.
Here are some highlights:
SATURDAY

The weekend starts off with Avery downing a WHOLE banana by herself.
She loved it. She even knew the difference between the peel and actual edible part.

Next, we took a trip to Costco with Kali and Ava.
It was great, they have double seated carts.
It was crazy to go to Costco on a Saturday so many people.
But the samples were yummy- even lil miss enjoyed some yogurt and crackers.

{Ava and Avery at Costco}
They both looked darling. People kept stopping to comment on the two little ones.
Avery definitely knows how to work a crowd already. We might be in trouble.

{It was a little scary. If it wasn't in the middle of the day I would have double checked the doors.}
Then, we headed downtown Virginia to a Riverbottom festival.
There was a really large crowd so we decided we were happy with just a drive by and
proceeded on a detour to 7-11 to get slurpees.

**That's when I received a text from my sister-in-law {Ashley}
and good friend {Amanda} that they are getting married in August.
Yay. I Love weddings and all the festivities. Congrats to y'all.

{brushing time}
Last, finished the night with helping Lil miss brush her teeth.
And that's when Mr. Pendleton came home.

SUNDAY
We went to Church {visitors welcomed}.
The Sunday school lesson was on remembrance.
James wanted to debate the teacher...
Her question: what is the most important word in these scripture verses?
James' answer: Christ. "The" answer: Remember.
He would definitely have a valid point.
When we drove home Lil miss fell asleep, typical.

{Can you find what is wrong in one of the above pictures? Answer below}
We enjoyed a Sunday stroll and photo shoot before our drive.

It is usually Mr.Pendleton and Avery horsing around.
This time I was the catalyst to lil miss' giggles. Nothing beats that.
Last our friends (Jon/Dani and Mark/Kali) came over to play games.
What's Sunday without a few card games.

**Answer: Did you happen to spot the adorable luggage?

Playful lightening storms

2010-05-14T19:38:00.000-07:00

I am loving the weather here. It has so many characteristic of my hometown, Dallas Texas.
Tonight was a really bad lighting storm and the lights when out TWICE
while I was making dinner.
It was scary but exciting at the same time.
And then James came home and the storm subsided.

***

Avery still is trying to settle into her new environment.
She takes her naps like usual, but they have been shortened.
Also, instead of two during the day she squeezes in three.
At first I was kinda annoyed to be honest.
I know that might sound bad, but as soon as I would put her down to do a few things-
thinking I would have about a hour left she would wake up.

Then I realized the reason: DADDY

Her naps now only last 45 mins to an hour and she takes one in the morning, late afternoon, and around eight. I know, I know. Eight usually is a baby's bedtime. Not for Avery though. She takes a rest so she can be up to play with daddy for a little bit before "real" bedtime. It is so fun to see how excited she gets when he walks in the door.

James tickling Lil miss

PS- Lil miss isn't the only one happy to see Mr. Pendleton. I usually try to wait a few minutes before cuddling up to him- I know he likes to take time to catch up on sports and news and stuff. We are so grateful for all of his hard work and love.

Have a fun weekend!

Honeysuckle smelling trash

2010-05-13T20:27:00.000-07:00

We all have our own talents and short falls, weaknesses and strengths.
One of the weaknesses I possess is the dislike to complete the trash duty.

There are so many characteristic I could use to confirm my reasoning such as the smell, the bag breaking, or leaking garbage juice (especially when it lands on you). Also, I forgot to add the weird "creations" of images that are pressed against the lining. Man, my imagination goes wild thinking about what kind of rotten item is producing such picture.

But, my dislike has evolved into enjoyment over night. Just like that.
It seems as though everyday I find myself taking Lil Miss on a journey to the dumpster.

First off, I know it's sad that two grown adults and a little one can FILL up garbage bags on a daily basis but lets think about it... Avery pees alot. With that said, I may even take an "almost full" bag just to take that walk. The walk that smells like honeysuckle. Yes, every now and then you get the nasty trash scent but mostly lovely honey.

As kids honeysuckle grew around our neighborhood and the smell was delightful. We would even take the time to suck that one tiny drop of sweetness from the flower until there were no more buds on the tree. Its a fun treat I give myself while performing a task I generally ask James to complete. On another note:

Lil Miss is up and running... as long as she can hold on to something she is standing and walking. She also has found delight in the toilet paper in the bathroom. I think the bathroom is heaven on earth in her eyes. Its where she gets to bathe (a favorite activity), and it has rolls of bathroom tissue to play with. Really, what more could a girl ask for?

** I drove to Target today. Granted, Target is two blocks from our home. Yet, I did it. I do need lots more practice and thank goodness James was with me. He was coaching me along the way.
James assured me I did well, and that it is a hard clutch (whatever that means).

Hail... really?

2010-05-12T17:50:00.000-07:00

Okay so for the past couple of weeks we have been enjoying the lovely spring weather.

And then, this...
Hail.
Really, I haven't experienced balls of ice hitting my car since I left Dallas.
Almost about eight years ago. Goodness, time flies.
At least it's not snow, right?
We get to enjoy our warm apartment while
Mr.Pendleton has to work in such terrible weather.

I absolutely love this photo. Had to share.
Lil Miss enjoying some bath time.
She is napping naked right now. She prefers topless.
Don't worry most tots do, it's normal.

Hope your hump day was marvelous!

Up and Running.

2010-05-11T16:39:00.000-07:00

We are up and running. Finally, have some internet.
Lil Miss is cuter than ever.
She enjoys her days with mommy...
crawling, babbling, standing and "trying" to walk.
It is such a blessing to stay home with her.
We are getting into a routine now that we have our own place.

Our Mother's Day as Virginia {LOVERS}:
How was yours?
I am so very grateful for these two, words can't describe.

The day together was delightful.

We went on a Sunday drive,

which I love driving along a country road with my loved ones.

We also visited Williamsberg.

It was nice to be with family and friends, but the attraction was sub par.

Mr. Pendleton was a good sport about it,

but I have to agree with him there wasn't much thrill to it.

** Daddy and Avery getting ready for bed.
Since moving for the summer, Lil Miss hasn't been the easiest to put to bed.
Back at home, we could just lay her down and she would wiggle a little then drift off.
Last night, I had to try the let her scream it out technique.
I was/am NOT a fan...
Unlike me, Mr. Pendleton kept his cool while helping his wifey keep hers.
It is harder than I thought it would be.
So tonight I tried it by MYSELF (yes I know, daring):
Results- it was a SUCCESS, and the screaming only lasted about 10 mins.
Granted it was a LONG 10 mins, but she is now resting peaceful.

{Lovers} home

2010-05-06T17:17:00.000-07:00

We have a new home.
It is very far from our family, but will do for now.
We feel so very blessed to be here.

We look forward to the adventures that the east coast has in store for us.

The weather is absolutely AMAZING here. Wonderful temperature and no snow in sight.
We take multiple walks, me and the Lil Miss, to enjoy the surroundings.
Also, I can't drive the car we bought.
It's a manual and I don't know how to drive it.
I know, pathetic. Mr.Pendleton will teach me, maybe.
If not, at least I am getting good exercise.

**I am anticipating the 4th of July here.
Hopefully, the festivities don't let us down, and I bet they won't.

Cinco de Mayo in the Aquarium

2010-05-05T16:40:00.000-07:00

We went to the Virginia Aquarium & Marina Center today.

We saw sharks, sea lions, sea turtles, and lots of Nemo(s)- FISHIES.

It was pretty cool.

I liked it and little miss STARED, a LOT= she liked it.

{Avery watching the big shark in the Background}

This was along the our nature walk.

Great weather and scenery.

** We got a car (Nissan Sentra) and James sold 3 accounts!!

We are moving to Richmond, tomorrow. Finally.

Happy CINCO de MAYO...

We are getting tacos for dinner to celebrate.

Actually, the office beat their goal for yesterday, so that is the real reason for the tacos.

But it works, right?

Nomadic {Lovers}

2010-05-04T16:53:00.000-07:00

It would be wonderful to blog about our new home and such,

but we haven't reached it yet.

Our move hasn't gone quite as planned.

We are still living out of hotel(s).

{Avery: Car ride from the Hilton to La Quinta}

Last night's sleep was undisturbed and peaceful. Thanks to the Hilton Garden Inn.

Their "King" size beds are to die for, and you feel like you have when you are in dreamland.

You don't want to move a single muscle, so we didn't.

Morning wake-up 10:00 am. One word. Beautiful.

I was trying to get some pictures of Little Miss entertaining herself in front of the full length mirror. She is so very cute. I just sat on the bed and watched her for 20 mins. Welcome to the joys of motherhood. A bigger grin doesn't meet her face except when her favorite daddy walks through the door.

P.S. We think we have found a car. Keep your fingers crossed.

**This "car shopping" has been a lot more stressful for

Mr. Pendleton and I than we thought it would be.

Lesson learned: Drive to summer sales with your car.

Don't you love how you learn little lessons along the way? I do, sometimes.

{Lovers} safe and sound

2010-05-03T11:25:00.001-07:00

We made it here, safely.

We were even able to take a little swim in the pool this morning which was lovely.

And little miss was as adorable as ever.

My favorite picture of little miss is with her daddy.

Melts my heart.

We are enjoying our summer vacation.

Little miss was "curious" to say the least about the pool.

It seems that she will enjoy swimming after she gets comfortable with the water.

We are now just really eager to get into OUR apartments.

**Starting up the daily updates again.

Enjoy. Hopefully they are interesting enough for y'all.

Soon to be {Lovers}.

2010-04-29T21:07:00.000-07:00

We are headed on the road again.

Actually we will be flying to...

Virginia

A state for lovers.

And Families. So they say.

For the next four months, we are headed across the country.

We are anxious and excited about the journey ahead of us.

As we went around packing and getting things organized for such move,

Avery enjoyed her creative playpen.

It actually only lasted a few minutes before she was ready for something new.

She enjoys roaming around our home "discovering" everything.

Mostly things that she shouldn't be playing with such as...

chords, outlets, balls of duck tape (noted in middle pictures)

and anything else she can quickly crawl to and swallow.

Its a fun game we play. Not really.

She is such a sweet heart.

It's unbelievable to think she will be walking

and talking (kind of) by the time we make it back to UTAH.

Don't worry I plan to blog weekly again.

goodnite...

We still have a few more things to do over here at our casa before we find dreamland.

**We made a trip to DALLAS

for my cousin's {Dustin} wedding.

The trip threw a snag in my blogging endeavors.

But I plan to climb back up on the horse very soon.

I have about FIVE drafts to finish for the past 3 weeks.

Reflection. Home-maker

2010-04-22T11:18:00.000-07:00

The past few weeks I have been earnestly trying to take a step back from my over eager- have to do it all- mentality like so many other women suffer from. The result.

I haven't gotten there... at least not yet.

But the past week instead of trying to cram everything I 'need' to do (which most of the time I could cut out most of the need-tos, because they really don't matter), I decided to just do ONE thing and then do something I enjoy.

Consequently, I have been reading. Lots of reading. James asked "why the new found library on our nightstand?" Answer. I like reading and now I have time.

So while I focus on teaching our little miss small joys and exploring the world together, I am teaching myself. Teaching myself anything I want to learn. It's completely freeing.

I don't have to meet deadlines on projects that don't really matter (to me at least) or sit at a computer in a hard chair for hours at a time. It is a gift given to me by my sweet husband. Thank you.

PS James only has two more semesters of College. Yay.

And he doesn't need to go through the summer to complete.

Now that is exciting news.

lost and found

2010-03-30T21:26:00.001-07:00

How many of you thought you had lost something FOREVER?

Then one day, it magically appears...

I lost my point and shoot canon camera last christmas (Dec 08).

The saddest part was that ALL our honeymoon pics were on the SD card. Sad hun?

Well here are some pictures resurrected from the camera.

I found the little bugger hidden away in the pocket of a red coat that has found a new home at DI.

Good thing I checked the lump in the right pocket before sending the load away.

As you can tell I hadn't worn the jacket for a long time.

Some of my favorite pics:

{Our date at Spaghetti Warehouse}

{Our Mexican Honeymoon}

{Golfing as Newly weds}

Now I just have to find the charger... I might have already given that away too. Oops...

How much can a new one run anyway? Because I love love this small point and shoot (Canon Powershot SD1000) and replacing the charger is definitely worth it. Best pictures EVER.

Purple Cousins

2010-03-29T20:47:00.000-07:00

Next best thing to siblings are COUSINS.

Since, little miss will have to wait a while for siblings...

there is nothing better than little tikes to play with.

Miss Liv (Olivia) is only 10 weeks older and they will sure have lots of fun together.

Right now, the milestones are so spaced that Liv was wanting to play and Little Miss Avery just wanted to observe. Little Miss sure does enjoy watching her cousins though.

They make her giggle and smile with joy.

The "real" pictures that Carly took with her camera,

which I can't wait to see!

I just love capturing the "process".

I knew it would be a hoot with 7 grandchildren- eight years old and younger.

Avery did a wonderful job, and I think we got some pretty good pictures.

Little Miss definitely did NOT like the grass though.

She doesn't know what to make of it yet.

Miss Liv felt the same way until she realized that if she wanted to get to her cousin, Miss Avery she would have to crawl on it and conquer her fears. So she did.

**REAL pictures coming soon!

Grandma Pendleton did an amazing job making all the dresses and skirts to match.

Dadada

2010-03-26T20:20:00.000-07:00

Mr. Pendleton insists that Avery's first word was "dada".

I would agree that she has said "dadadada".

She uttered this word while looking at Him,

but she has also vocalized the same "word"

while staring at a book, doll, ME, her grandma etc.

You get the picture.

So no "actual" words yet,

though her dada would like to think otherwise.

Tonight during dinner with the Smith clan (birthday celebration for both Julie and Chelsey) at Brick Oven, we enjoyed the company of many relatives. Little miss is so cute when her cousins are around. She thinks she is as big as their are. She holds on conversations and gets much wanted attention.

It was an enjoyable evening. Mr. Pendleton, of course, had to end then night with political talk. I guess he is trying on his new hat as county delegate. It was a nice surprise to find out other family members were voted as Precinct Chair- Dalene and Vice Chair- Jeff. I guess I won't be able to escape the political jargon. Who am I kidding... Mr. Pendleton wouldn't let me anyways. The future appears hopeful, now.

PS I enjoy blogging again on a regular basis.

I went to work (Steven-Henager College) to pick up some material

and lets just say little miss Avery already knows how to work a crowd.

PPS I love how kind and thoughtful James is.... never hesitates to lend a helping hand. I need to learn from his example. The past couple of weeks he has helped our friends the Christopherson's paint and also move into their new home. I was on lunch and baby duty.

Enjoy your weekend.

The Katschke peeps are in town so we plan to do just that.

Marriage defined...

2010-03-25T21:37:00.000-07:00

talking about your day with one another- the good and bad.
being able to snuggle next to Mr. Pendleton while he watches TV.
Yes I know... March madness is going on (Good game- Kansas St. vs Xavier), and I have the nerve to "make" him take pictures with me. Yep, he didn't participate voluntarily.
Laughing with him while Facebook stalking old girlfriends.
Finally, reframing from leaving the room when he farts.

{object of my affection}

I had to deny his "advances" while making this post- between timeouts of course.

He was only joking, i think...

Simple Living

2010-03-24T16:48:00.000-07:00

Mr. Pendleton and I joked about an article that came out in the March 2010 Ensign, Digital detachment & personal revelation. I made the comment that he always seems to be either watching ESPN or fox news while performing some task on his iphone. We even seem to manage playing games with one another with absolutely no conversation. You ask how? Our iphones enable us to do so. So two weeks ago Mr. Pendleton told me that I could not use this article for our FHE lesson. So I didn't.

Sunday our home teachers stopped by. The lesson shared: Digital detachment & personal revelation. I laughed. I know it was rude, and the home teacher was a little taken back. I explained the chuckle though. I guess when you need to hear something, there are multiple avenues that can be used. The truth is I needed to hear it just as much as Mr. Pendleton.

So today I had my ipod blaring in the background while reading. It dawned on me, so off went the music. I spent the afternoon listening to Avery's babbling and cooing. Though there was some whining here and there, it was peaceful. I can't say that I was hit with a big revelation this particular afternoon. I just spent the late afternoon appreciating my little girl and enjoying a good book. The book, The Complete Idiot's guide to Simple Living. I know weird choice for an afternoon read, but ever since I became a stay-at-home I am intrigued with finding ways to better my family's quality of life. I am completely enjoying this new journey I have placed on myself and hope to fulfill my goals.

{Little Miss enjoying her "friend" in the mirror. She was even giving kisses.}

It's interesting how as your grow older you get accustomed to more- distraction (noise).

As a baby, lots of noise usually frightens you,

such as today when our friend mark was using a electric sander Avery began to cry.

She would tightly grip me whenever it was turned on.

And then when you reach the elderly stage,

your hearing goes altogether,

and peace seems to return to ones' countenance.

Just a thought.

{Avery wanted her friend's pacifier... little did she know she already had it.}

Man, this little one teaches me profound lessons daily.

Stop wanting what others have.

If you can take time, you might just realize you already have what you want.

Caucus

2010-03-23T20:48:00.000-07:00

I voted for a republican... Mr. Pendleton is one of the newly elected County Delegates for the OR-04 precinct. It makes me smile.

{Mr. Pendleton on the Tea cup ride @Disneyland}

It will be a fun ride for both of us.

He went home and began to read the literature about the candidates.

For the record, Mr. Pendleton doesn't like to read.

This also made me smile.

Now he is watching last night's episode of 24 and I am blogging.

I also intend to read up a little on investing in stock.

It has grabbed my interest in the last few days.

**Activities after the Caucus meeting:

went couponing for the first time with Mr.Pendleton at Maceys.

It felt like a scavenger hunt, which I love.

We will definitely do it again.

Exploring

2010-03-22T20:48:00.001-07:00

Bigger than life. I am sure that is how miss Avery views her dad. He is always there to pick her up when she is upset, sad, or scared.

He is there in the morning when she begins to rustle awake and greet her for the new day.

He is there to give her a bath when her bum needs a little cleaning.

He is there to rock her when she gets restless with lack of sleep.

He is there to make sure she is able to explore the world in a safe environment...

And when she gets a little bigger, I am sure he will eagerly accept any other roles she has in store for him-such as teacher, coach, and most of all role model.

One thing he will definitely make sure to do is to protect her... especially from any unwanted "dates". Oh, I am looking forward to watching their father-daughter relationship grow and develop throughout the years.

Lil munchkin exploring the front yard while Mr.Pendleton cleans the cars.

She didn't know what to think of the grass,

which made her weary to practice crawling.

She was content just watching and exploring what mommy was doing-

which was taking pics of those chubby cheeks.

Another favorite past time for miss Avery, is exploring around our home.

The bathroom seems to draw her attention every time.

I think she just really enjoys bath-time and her ducky.

It's interesting to see the world through the eyes of your child.

Especially, at this age when they aren't even a foot off the ground.

Eye opening. You take notice of the little things easier.

I need to vacuum and clean the floors A LOT better.

The HOME stretch

2010-03-19T22:39:00.000-07:00

So it is the last night I am solo in dreamland. Music to my ears.

Tonight I had some girl time with a good friend. It was delightful.

We talked while waiting over a hour for our table at Texas Roadhouse,

mind you we called ahead to be placed on the waiting list and still ended up waiting that long.

We talked some more during our hour and a half dinner, which was also divine.

Believe it our not we still were not done with our visit, so she came over to Grandma Dot's house and we finished our chatting.

Start time: 7:00 pm

End time: 10:45 pm

Yep, we are friends. I love moments like that. Conclusion was that we needed to meet up twice a month not only to just chat and stuff our faces, but to include activities such as crafts, bakery, or other girly interests. So we will. You're invited as well if you need some fun girl time.

Mr. Pendleton misses us so I sent some love his way via iphone.

{Avery was knocked out from the day's hustle and bustle}

PS iphones are AMAZING.

I was kinda tricked into getting the iphone (another story),

but now I want to join their advertising team and be a spokesman.

Let's just say, they didn't offer me the gig.

Enjoy your weekend, I will especially since Mr. Pendleton is back.

He will also be talking on "Service in thy Kingdom".

This suits him to a tee.

A new Record

2010-03-18T22:51:00.001-07:00

{The flowers Mr. Pendleton sent me the first time we were away from one another}

I love tulips and he knows that.

I want to find a Niche...

Something that brings creativity and inspiration to my heart.

I heard someone say that you have found "it"

when you loose your self... time fades away and delight enters.

My niche will not be blogging, but I want to keep the streak alive.

It has been three days in a row. Working from home=blogging.

Blogging goal: Monday through Friday.

I expressed last night while having our nightly chat with Mr.Pendleton

that no one really reads this. Makes me sad but true.

But sweet Mr. Pendleton assured me that he does. There you go... It is worth it.

Hopefully one day my children will be followers as well.

It helps me with creativity and thinking outside the box.

I am ready to tap back into my creative juices.

I hear that children help to open the imagination.

Since I have one... I completely agree.

Flowers work as a muse also.

Georgia O'keeffe painted gorgeous flowers.

My tastes have expanded with maturity.

They now include dahlias (our wedding flower) and peonies.

European double-petal roses are a favorite as well.

If you know what these particular buds look like,

you can tell I like the full blooms.

I love the spring time, flowers and all-especially the month of March.

Two years ago, this weekend (21st to be exact)... Mr.Pendleton took me to a baseball game.

Our first date. The chemistry was magical. The rest is history.

Spring WILL sprung

2010-03-17T21:41:00.000-07:00

HAPPY ST. PATTY'S DAY

You can pinch her chubby cheeks if you want, but she is wearing green.

Check out those strawberry leaves... I always have to refrain.

It was a very beautiful day, today.

So we had to get out and enjoy it.

Park picnic anyone?

Little miss Avery had another hard day with her runny nose and slight fever.

I think it was from the shots. Hopefully, that's the culprit.

She enjoyed the rays with her polka dotted hat and new sandals.

Earlier in the day, we went to Lap-time at the library.

Very cute and Avery got kicks out of it.

I am afraid she is getting "too clingy" with me...

so I want her to experience others more often.

We enjoyed it.

After the full day of Events...

Little miss enjoyed using the Tylenol bottle as a pacifier.

Little miss sat on my lap because nothing else made her happy.

Grandma Dot even scared her a few times.

I think she was afraid I would give her away.

For the record, that would never happen.

We did get in a session of babble talk. It was fun sweetie. Let's do it again...

Hopefully, this teething thing comes to an end soon.

Tomorrow works for me.

Just sleep it off

2010-03-16T19:09:00.000-07:00

So today was hard for our little miss Avery.

She had her 6-month checkup.

The doctor was very pleased with her stats.

Weight: 51%

Height: 49%

Head Circumference: 78%

She is already sleeping through the night so that is good.

She was a little fussy during the appointment due to the fact she was hungry and tired.

Then came the shot(s). Yes... multiple in each thigh.

Poor girl... and the rest of the day was just as hard.

Her nose began to run, a little fever, and just tired.

The only things that made her smile:

Babble time with mommy, (weird) crochet pink bear that daddy gave her,

the dryer, and the camera of course.

Yep, we have a unique little one on our hands.

Me and Mr. Pendleton couldn't be any happier with this one.

So I did what any mother would do,

gave her some Tylenol and put her to bed.

She needed it.

Face Recognition: Avery

2010-03-16T00:12:00.000-07:00

I have a few projects to complete this week while the hubby is away.

One is to organize my pictures on this new computer,

which has a cool feature of face recognition.

So I was "confirming" all the pictures that the computer "recognized" as AVERY.

Most of them were Avery- kuddos to you little Mac.

But there were a few that were definitely not Avery.

They all happen to be in the above picture.

Can you guess who they are?

I can understand some of the similarities with the look a likes,

but others just made me laugh.

The AVERY look a likes:

1) Mommy

Most people say she is a clone of me as a baby, so it's understandable.

2) Cousin Nana

They both seem to have those adorable chubby cheeks, honest mistake.

3)Cousin Madi

Again, cute little grin and button nose, another honest mistake.

4)Aunt Amy

great smile and fair skin- "Pendleton features"

5)Aunt Ashley

Again I would say the smile and maybe the shape of the eyes, "Pendleton features".

And here are the TWO kickers, that had me laughing.

6)Cousin Taylor

7)Cousin Logan

Maybe just because they have little round faces??

But then again, Emma wasn't tagged by this so called face recognition.

I just thought it was entertaining that Mr. Pendleton (Avery's dad) wasn't picked or

even Grandma Pendleton since all the Pendleton girls were tagged.

I guess the Pendleton genes run strong in the girls and grandsons.

So glad that our little miss Avery comes from such a good gene pool.

DD moment: Mr. Pendleton

2010-03-15T23:53:00.000-07:00

DD moments melt my heart.

A moment for me to cherish while my Mr. Pendleton is gone for a few days.

DADDY DAUGHTER moments are the sweetest.

She is so lucky to have him in her life.... and so am I.

We love you... and come back to us safely.

The weirdest (scariest) thoughts creep into my head while he is away.

I am trying to work on it, but for now drive safe-especially in that little red Toyota of Jon's.

I hear they are having a few problems- just what my over-active imagination needs.

PS I am excited about your talk...

Just an ordinary day

2010-03-09T19:26:00.000-08:00

One of the perks of working, only part time from home, is that I get to spend

more time with Mr. Pendleton and our little peanut.

On mondays we get to watch Logan and Nana.

Yesterday, was a hoot since both Mr. Pendleton

and I shared the babysitting responsibilities.

lesson 1.

Texts can be misleading.

So daters, lovers, and friends be careful what you write.

Example:

Mr. Pendleton texts: "We're here already,"

[meaning he is at the park with the little ones waiting for me to get there- the park].

My interpretation: "We're here [the house], all-ready"

[ready to go and waiting for you to walk with us to the park].

Reading Comprehension was never a strong subject for me in school.

Maybe, like my mom use to tell me and now James has picked up that role...

"Katy you always hear/read what you want to."

You should try it... it makes for a pleasurable life, but beware some might get annoyed.

The great news is they still love you!

So ten minutes passed while I unloaded the stroller with the two drinks from sonic, walked in the house looked through all the rooms thinking that Mr.Pendleton was playing one of his hide-n-seek games with the kids. Finally realizing that no one is at the house, and that everyone is already at the park, I began to load everything back in the car plus adding an extra change of clothes, because Logan had an accident.

Lesson 2.

Your cousin can't be your girlfriend.

Logan: "Avery is so cute, she is little though."

Me: "yeah she is..."

Logan: "I love her, when she is older she will be my girlfriend"

Me: "Ummm... she is your cousin"

Loagn: [puzzled look] "she can't be my girlfriend, she is my cousin".

Me: "Yep".

Logan: "oh".

{Photos: Courtesy of Logan}

I love lessons learned.

It was a good day for all of us!

Stay at HOME mom

2010-03-09T19:04:00.000-08:00

Yes it is true.

I am a stay at home...

and I am loving it.

It will be a little bit tight for a while

but it is so worth it.

It allows me

to rescue this little lady time and time again,

and play with her ALL day long.

Oh that smile and those eyes-

Get me every time.

giggles

2010-02-04T20:56:00.000-08:00

When you bring Mr. Pendleton and Miss Avery together you get giggles...

from BOTH of them.

Yes that's right, she is giggling. She does it only for him though.

We have enjoyed her smile for a while, so to hear a little squeal

come from our peanut was very exciting.

Mr. Pendleton was on the floor tonight playing with Miss Avery

by kissing her with his rough facial hair, which by the way she loves,

and she began to giggle in delight.

I even tried to get her to giggle for me... no luck.

It was priceless. I love them both so very much.

Can't wait for more giggles....

For right now, enjoy dreamland!

book lover

2010-02-03T20:10:00.001-08:00

I think she will take after me and enjoy reading.

Even though Mr. Pendleton doesn't think I actually read.

I never really got that... why would I "fake" read.

I probably don't read as much as I could or should,

but I really do enjoy it.

And it looks as though little miss will also.

Now, I need to start collecting "good" children's book.

I remember a few that I enjoyed as a child that I will share with her,

which I am excited about. Got any suggestions?

A new HOBBY?

2010-02-01T22:20:00.001-08:00

Illustrator 101.

Not sure if I will try to make a little money with it (though having James as a husband, always seems to promote "business"ideas), but I sure do love it. I went to a class taught by this lady, and it was AWESOME.

I have another class to learn about PHOTOSHOP and I can't wait. Her and her sweetheart are teaching classes at a mini art weekend in LA. sounds fun, huh? Not sure if we can manage the bucks for airfare, hotel, AND class costs. We will see...

Next best thing: user FRIENDLY books. They are even for beginners... I might get one. You should. The class was so informative and the book is the same way. Anyone that wants to learn either how to use their DSLR camera (me), photoshop basics (me) or illustrator (Already did!) I recommend her textbooks.

PS I can NOW play around with my blog headers... so keep a look out for new ones.

LOVE is...

2010-01-24T22:11:00.000-08:00

The corner piece of James' German pancakes on a sunday afternoon.

Mr. Pendleton fixed breakfast while I played with our little one-Miss Avery, and it was divine.

Thanks babe for treating me with such kindness.

I enjoyed you today.

You and all of your playfulness.

Her gummy smile

2010-01-07T20:28:00.000-08:00

Nothing is better than going to pick up my baby girl after a long day at work...

Except when Carly hands me a CD of pictures that she took of Miss Avery.

I love this girl, gummy smile and all.

Such a cutie...

And yes Carly, there is a difference.

A Sunday School Slap

2010-01-04T21:00:00.000-08:00

It was about time.

It flew across my face like the back of someone's hand. It was that real. I thought to myself, "it can even happen at church." Actually, church is the best place to receive it- let it be called an epiphany, light bulb moment, insight etc. I personally like to refer to it as personal revelation, especially since it occurred during Sunday school.

Journaling: The importance of record keeping.

People it's IMPORTANT.

I always had a desire to write down my thoughts. To be honest, my journaling efforts were more for selfish reasons: to clear my mind, express myself, remember special moments.

But having a child seems to change every aspect of your life which has changed my mentality immensely. Record keeping is for posterity. To allow them access into a window of my life that they wouldn't be able to enter otherwise.

My reasons have changed. I do it now so she(they-not a baby announcement) may see me in more ways than just their mother or grandmother. So they may know my heart and convictions. My opinions and joys. My pains and struggles. So when they are traveling through this earthly experience they might find comfort and solace in my words. Or humor. Whatever they may need at the time.

My new goal: to provide a written legacy.

Translation: I need to blog more.

Christmas GIfts

2009-11-17T10:36:00.000-08:00

Look Here. It's pretty cool and Green.

I love trying to find the right present for each love one.

PS I think I might make a few little surprises as well.

Covered Wagon

2009-11-08T22:03:00.000-08:00

Yep, We (James & I) are OFFICIAL.

Tonight James "successfully" gave me a covered wagon.

I know it's gross... REALLY it is gross.

But I can't help but smile.

I know ya'll think I am crazy.

Let's be honest I am.

I think it brings a sense of love and humor

to our relationship.

You ask how...

I am not sure to tell the truth.

All I can say is that,

it made us both laugh.

I love the "after"...

obviously not the part where the ordor was encompassing my whole body

without the help of fresh air to filter the smell.

But the after, when we both were laughing.

It was good.

This doesn't mean I want another one.

It means I enjoy HIM, Mr.Pendleton...

smelliness and all.

PS You ask what a covered wagon is, look here.

Only if you dare. Hope you had an enjoyable weekend.

Early morning hours

2009-11-05T05:14:00.000-08:00

Peaceful. I love them. It doesn't matter if I have stayed up all night or just woke up on my own to check on my little one sleeping or stumble into the bathroom. There is something magical about being awake right before the world rises. You can almost feel the excitement of a new day, as tangible as snuggling with Mr. Pendleton- one of my favorite activities.

Maybe its so refreshing because after I quietly sit, I can sneak back to bed right before Mr. Pendleton gets up and cuddle up close. I have to time it just right. If I try to snuggle too early, when he is in the deep REM type sleep, I am cuddling a stiff log. If I wait to long he is outta bed and already in the shower (which can be fun too). But if I catch him right in the middle... He is just right. A little drowsy so he rolls over wrapping his arms around me. Tight enough to hold me still if I try to move, yet loose enough to give him a kiss. Perfect for starting a new day.

I think it is just that time. I can hear the car noise pick up outside and the sky is turning a slighter blue. Therefore, I must go and start my perfect day.

P.S. I am watching Nana and Logan today. I am excited to play with them.

I heard that our little peanut was a handful yesterday... Sorry Carly.

The red face kind.

2009-11-03T10:39:00.000-08:00

CAUTION: This will probably embarrass Miss Avery when she is older, but me and her dad can't hold back the laughter. Our little lady can't help but to let everyone around her know she is doing her business. She hasn't learned the value of subtlety. Soon she will though.

You know what she is talking about. It sometimes catches you off guard.

The kind that takes all your might and turns your face crimson.

Then you are able to conquer it,

and tranquility comes back into your countenance.

Sometimes you are even left with the question face.

P.S. "Mommy loves me" is an understatement.

Halloweenie

2009-11-02T17:54:00.000-08:00

What do you get when you put two farmers together?

ONE prize WINNING pumpkin.

Our first family Halloween costumes.

Equals a fun night of plinko, food, family, and a costume parade.

{Favorite costumes of the night: Octo-mom and cheerleader with really big pecs}

P.S. Mr. Pendleton looked really good in his farmer get-up... makes me want to tear up the back yard and start a garden.

2 month check-up

2009-10-29T12:12:00.001-07:00

Two-month check ups aren't as fun as two week since your little one has to get jabbed in both thighs for her immunizations. It would be a lot nicer if the shots were in liquid form. Pediatricians please take into consideration. Thanks.

Avery was a trooper though, as always.

Length: 22 1/4 inches
Weight: 11 lbs 10 oz

As you can tell. She is growing well. Avery is so much fun with her grins, grunts, and coos. She is always alert so much that when it's sleep time in comes the blanket to put over her head to block out all the distractions.

People still ask who she looks like. To be honest, some days she looks exactly like her mom and other days like her daddy. You can decide.

PS We took family pictures the day of Avery's two-month birthday. Saturday was really rainy plus the BYU game. Sunday was better but cold. Pictures coming soon. You might even get one in the mail!

A baby blessing.

2009-10-13T23:10:00.000-07:00

Avery just wanted to take time to thank everyone that came to her blessing, both those that physically came and those that sent their support through love and prayers.

THANK YOU...

from my own little chubby cheeks.

Before the blessing we took a few pictures..

Maybe it was the excitement but I don't think we got one decent picture.

Finally, afterwards there was SUCCESS:

Daddy did such a sweet job. It is a special blessing in our family to

have a Priesthood holder like him to lead and provide for our family. Mom cried, of course.

The Grandparents.

Grand-dottie helped prepare some of the food. The onions made her cry.

Everyone brought a dish... therefore we had a gourmet BBQ.

It was perfect. Ryan (RyPie) did the grilling.

Grandma Pendleton made the dress, which was precious. Grandpa cried, too.

The sweet Great-grandparents:

Grandpa and Grandma Smith

Grandma Smith had to approve of the picture mom took of her. I think she looks graceful.

The folks in attendance.

Not Pictured:(Great) Grandpa & Grandma Pendleton, Mark & Kali Christopherson w/Ava, Emily & Adam Townsley, Megan Wilkinson, Tiffany Miley, Gloria Miley & Bill, Amber & Dereck Shumway, Madison Pecht, Garrett & Kelsie Beeston, Landon & Julie, Reed & Adeline.

Thank you for coming, even though most of the time I was doing this.

It was a present for my parents so they could enjoy ALL of ya'll.

Love, Avery Lyn

P.S. I really appreciate the love from my family in Wyoming and Texas that were unable to attend. I feel blessed with so much love!

Computer problems...

2009-10-09T16:46:00.000-07:00

Our computer has passed away. Actually it can be resuscitated , which is the good news, but it needs a new life (battery). So I guess I ran it in the ground with all the posts I wrote two weeks ago. My apologizes little buddy.

This is why there are no pictures. All of my pics are stored on that computer.

I need to do that CD back up thing, so all won't be lost when she really goes.

Its a scary thing to loose all my data: pictures, memories, papers, etc.

Note taken. Here comes the hours of back-up CDs.

She will be risen soon (thank goodness)...

like my own little Frankenstein.

Happy October.

P.S. I can't believe FALL is already here.

Dear Weather,
PLEASE let me have autumn and enjoy your crisp fall temperature.
I was not a fan of the quick cold front that visited us last week.
Snow is not welcomed yet... in a month or so you can come, and then I will enjoy you as well.

Thanks,
Katy

Met the Quota.

2009-09-29T09:13:00.002-07:00

You know that you have been reading blogs too long when...

You are viewing a site with adorable childrens creations... as you look around for more items and you see "view blog". Everyone seems to have a website AND blog now a days, right? Your heart jumps at the chance to see more sensational pieces, but the bubble bursts. You just realized (after clicking the link and being denied- you have no items in your BAG) what it really said...

{{VIEW BAG}}.

It's time to get off.

Your BLOG quota has been met for today.

At least, I was just window shopping to get ideas. James would be proud. Actually he would probably make the comment, "Why were you surfing the web? You are suppose to be sleeping when Avery does. Looking at the computer is NOT taking it easy. You need to rest." Yep, I can hear his voice now which makes me smile. I love Mr. Pendleton.

P.S. Have fun today at your NEW job (location), babe.

Growing Pains

2009-09-29T09:13:00.001-07:00

As a new mom, I am having growing pains. These pains aren't from stretching skin or swollen feet. Instead, the pains come from deep inside: The knowledge that my beautiful baby girl won't stay a baby for long.

*Avery Lyn 5 weeks old*

It's crazy to think about how much she has already grown and changed. She is discovering herself and the world around her more and more each day. I am getting teary-eyed just thinking about it. Yes, I still can blame the hormones for my many emotions. Some milestones Miss Avery has already achieved:

Sleeping in her Crib, instead of the baby bassinet (In her own room may I add).
Loving Bath time- Daddy does such a good job making sure the water is warm.
Making more adorable baby coos- she is going to be a talker.
Drinking at LEAST 4 oz every feeding: every 3-4 hours.
Holding up her head so she can look around.
Rolling over from her stomach to her back.
Her hair growing longer.
Getting chubbier cheeks.
Sleeping better.
Smiling at us.

What a SWEETHEART.

Though it's hard for mommy to see you growing and changing, I am so excited for your future- to watch you grow into a breathtaking young lady. Keep on smiling babydoll, it lights up our day.

{26} The Alphabet Birthday.

2009-09-28T19:32:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite pictures: engagements in Indiana.

Taken by our friends Dani and Jon.

Mr. Pendleton turns {26}.

I am making him a gift. It hopefully with be very sappy and make me cry.

Mr. Pendleton is a ROCK... he does not cry.

I can count the times on one hand:

{1}our wedding day

{2}When he was writing about our bundle of joy, Miss Avery Lyn.

{3}when I left him in Indiana to drive back with his sister

But his present isn't ready yet. I know LAME.

I want it to be meaningful and special,

and it seems I can only work on it when the world is sleeping.

I will post about it when it is finished, which will be evidence of how late (lame)

his gift was from me. I am the worst lover ever.

Forgive me.

It will be worth it.

Happy Birthday, Sweetheart.

**Hint: There are 26 letters in the english alphabet,

which happens to be how old Mr. Pendleton is TODAY. Nifty, huh?

I got a kick out of it. So I ran with the idea...

PS. You are my world. Thank you.

Softball finale.

2009-09-27T03:01:00.000-07:00

James loves SPORTS. I know this is a very very big UNDERSTATEMENT for those that know my Mr. Pendleton. He is always on some kind of team... softball, hockey, football, etc. Let alone he tries to get out on the golf course at least a couple times a week. He can do this because he takes "clients" during work. Hey it works out for both of us... he doesn't have to use "our" money or time to go, so I don't complain. Sometimes I encourage a work golf outing. Mr. Pendleton has a little pepp in his step after a round of golf, which never hurts. Love to see him happy, but sometimes I miss him. It's true. So here is the moment of truth:

I can't say that I am too sad that softball is pretty much done. I get my cuddle time back. Yep, this is my selfish moment, but I like Mr. Pendleton. I like snuggling up to him and just chatting. It might not be something he looks forward to, but I certainly do!

Good Job this season babe!

You might have learned some valuable lessons:

Winning isn't everything. You can just have fun. Don't pick fights with your teammates.Sometimes you don't have to be AS competitive. There is something such as a fun little game of ball.

To name just a few. Or not.

One Month Old.

2009-09-27T03:00:00.000-07:00

September 25, 2009

One must celebrate their child's first month of life. We did it in fashion with a cute new outfit and cupcakes from Sweet Tooth Fairy.

We love you, Miss Avery. Your doting parents.

Country Music.

2009-09-21T18:39:00.000-07:00

Date night. Oh, how I love this night. It provides time for me and Mr.Pendleton to be kids again, to bask in the joys of being us- a couple in love and no worries.

Thanks again grandparents for taking care of the little one so we (especially me) could get out of the house for a night of music, dancing, and smooching.

Thanks for the great tunes...

Mister Brad Paisley & Dierks Bentley

On our way to the concert from dinner... I even was able to take a nap in the car. That hasn't happened since I was 6 months pregnant. Before the pregnancy it was a regular occurrence for me, you can ask Mr.Pendleton.

The crowd was a little unruly and they happened to trash the place. Among the causalities was my sunglasses and James' bag of kettle corn. He tried to salvage all that he could. It was a small price to pay for the amazing concert Mr. Paisley put on. At one time the clouds began to roll in and we were being serenaded to in the rain. I loved it.

**Note: Mr. Pendleton always sings along to the songs. My little secret is... I rather hear him singing than any other music artist, even Garth Brooks which says a lot. I just love his voice and the way he closes his eyes as he belts the words out. Yep, one of the many reasons I said yes to Mr. Pendleton.

Check out his proposal.

Yes, I had no idea it was being filmed so please excuse the excessive kissing.

P.S. I really like the Bed and Breakfast +babysitting retreat idea.

We will try not to take advantage of it, Grandma and Grandpa Pendleton

Olympic Swimmer.

2009-09-21T17:59:00.000-07:00

A few activities seemed to keep us occupied this past weekend. We have an Olympic Medalist in our family. Katrice Miley (my cousin) won the bronze medal in Special Olympics on Saturday morning for her swimming division.

She was so excited to see James and I there, that she almost knocked him over giving him a hug and screamed my name across the water. We were happy to be there and support her.

She is such a doll.

Katrice post-swim.

Baby Avery came to cheer her on as well.

Congrats, Katrice. You Rock!

**Note: This is the girls' THIRD Olympic Medal.

Count'em...1-2-3.

She received two for bowling last year.

*Thanks Tiffanie for the pictures.

I forgot our camera- of course.

Family Softball.

2009-09-21T17:39:00.000-07:00

A few activities seemed to keep us occupied this past weekend. We were sad to see Auntie Lyn leave... she needs to move up to mountain-land USA: UTAH. She came up for three weeks to help out with cleaning, babysitting, giving me pedicures, playing taxi for my mother (made it convenient not having to drive up to Draper to pick up the Grandma), hung pictures, rearranged furntiure, etc.

She did pretty much anything I needed, which was WONDERFUL.

Ryan's Softball Game. The Dress Sox. They won 22-13.

Kids say the darnest things...

2009-09-18T15:56:00.000-07:00

I can't wait till little Avery can communicate with us.
I expect many moments of laughter and joy.

This video is a perfect example.

Where do they come up with their material? Love it!

Miss Avery celebrating her parent's one year anniversary.

Thanks for the enthusiasm sweetheart.

Farewell Auntie LYN.

2009-09-17T07:39:00.000-07:00

She came. She left.

Here is some evidence of (Great) Aunt Lyn.

Lyn's present to Avery. The poop vibrator.

Snuggie.

2009-09-14T17:40:00.000-07:00

What the heck? when I first saw this commerical I thought it was a joke... really?!?! It is so corny and cheesy.... let the whole world walk around in a Fleece Pope-like robe.

They even have them for pets now. What is the world coming to?

I guess everyone is trying to make a little money in this down economy.

Life changes.

2009-09-11T16:07:00.001-07:00

When a new addition arrives in a family it brings about changes. Some reflections of how my priorities have changed in the last month due to our new addition:

There are still dishes in the sink... but now, baby bottles occupy them.

There is still a mess on our living room floor... but now, it is highlighted with shades of pink and baby supplies.

We still have mounds of laundry... but now, it hides a hint of baby vomit and soiled clothes with twice as many loads. Thank goodness for washer/dryer hookups in-house.

But it is ALL worth it to see this little face...

Sometimes I linger longer than I should just staring at her after she has fallen asleep in my arms. My time could be spent being more productive by picking up, cleaning, washing, etc., but I cannot resist.

Can you blame me?

Our Porcelain doll

2009-09-10T12:37:00.000-07:00

There is something magical about looking into the eyes of your sweet baby as she falls off to dreamland. I am lucky to experience it time and time again.

Love your big eyes and long eyelashes.

*Photos courtesy of Carly Pendleton Photography

Two week check-up

2009-09-08T16:05:00.000-07:00

I can't believe that she is already two weeks old. Time flies even when you are lacking in sleep.

Two Weeks Stats

Weight: 8 lbs 4 oz

Height: 20 inches

She is doing so well... and growing so much. We had LOTS of questions for our Pediatrician about what is normal, how can we help her sleep better, Is she feeding enough, Is she too young for a bottle, etc... We are so lucky to have such a sweet baby. Love you little Miss Avery Lyn!!

a Sunday Afternoon

2009-09-07T23:29:00.001-07:00

Most sunday afternoons consist of James watching a little golf or some sporting event after church attendance...

Now he shares his enthusiasm with his little girl.

She did so well during sacrament meeting...

and looked as cute as a button.

The BIG ONE

2009-09-07T23:21:00.000-07:00

James stated: "If BYU wins this game (referring to the BYU vs OU), it will be the best win for BYU". Well, we won! Go Cougars... 14 to 13. What a sight it would have been to see my sweetheart jumping up and down with excitement, while our little girl slept soundly in his arms throughout the entire celebration. I was spending the last hour of the game enjoying some shopping with the Pendleton girls, so I was unable to experience the joy with them.

There was another monumental event that occurred on Saturday night, September 5th... our ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY. It was probably overshadowed by the Cougar win in the eyes of James, but I was eager to get out of the house with my favorite person and enjoy one another. It was a low key affair which is exactly what I wanted and needed...

{Our one year old wedding cake}---------{Roses & a card}--------{Daddy watching the game with his lil' girl}

I think you are suppose to receive paper for your one year. A thoughtful card counts, right? Our first anniversary was perfect. We were able to spend a relaxing day together.May we have many more happy years together, babe!

LOVE 101

2009-09-05T15:09:00.001-07:00

This post is number 101 on our blog. It's dedicated to my Sweetheart and LOve: Mr. James L. Pendleton. Exactly one year today I married Him. The best decision I have made thus far. He is more amazing than I ever thought possible. It seems as though I post about how wonderful Mr. Pendleton is often... probably because he is always suprising me and showing how lucky I am. A tribute to our life togther and a year in the making.

LOVE is...

May the pictures speak for themselves.

Thank you for our life together.

Sleeping baby

2009-09-02T15:09:00.001-07:00

Have you ever felt as though you have tried everything? You are doing the exact same thing that has been working, but for SOME reason it's not anymore. Well after three long days of irregular and interrupted sleep, NOTHING is more beautiful to a mother's sight than this:

Her little one, catching some sleep that her growing body needs. All three hours....

Too bad it was smack dab in the middle of the day. Next time, Miss Avery, it would be even MORE of a treat if this was achieved in those peak late night/mid-morning hours.

Love, Mom

Avery's Firsts.

2009-08-31T22:06:00.000-07:00

A few bubbles and lots of cries. This afternoon was eventful for Miss Avery. She experienced a couple first and also was the star of a photo shoot. Her aunt Carly wanted to capture Avery in the first few days of life. Let's just say that Avery wasn't able to sleep from 12:30 in the afternoon till 5:30. Carly's "supplies" were soiled in the process as well. Poor baby was beyond exhausted by the time we got home. The pictures are well worth it. Check her out here or here.

PICTURES coming Soon!

Besides Avery being tired, her mom was spent as well. Going on a 15 minute walk, not sitting down for three hours while trying to calm a crying baby is hard for anyone, let alone someone who had a C-section six days ago. We both went home and slept. When daddy came home he fixed dinner and then the fun began. We gave AVery her first bath. She did great! Some moments captured by the camera. How can you not love that face?

I would like to announce that she is now warm snuggled in her bed sleeping soundly.

I need to go to bed as well!

Until Avery's next milestone...

Daddy

2009-08-31T09:56:00.000-07:00

I have some time on my hands now that I am HOME with Miss Avery. It is so wonderful to be here with her. To take every moment in...

I was thinking about the time that we were able to spend together this past week in the hospital. My dear sweetheart was so very charming catering to mine and his little girls every need. Avery is so very lucky to have a daddy like Mr. Pendleton.
Just a couple of EXAMPLES:

During Labor I became a little (understatement) nauseous due to the medications. I only had a few seconds to express the discomfort to my sweetheart and then Mr. Upchuck made himself know. Instead of turning away in discuss, he held out his hands. I love him. The rest of the labor I was dry-heaving and he was there comforting me.
He made sure he was up helping me during the nightly feedings, even if he could only offer his reassurance. We had a routine I would nurse our little one, and daddy would take Miss Avery into his arms so her mommy could get some rest. He then would burp her, change her, and rock her back to sleep. I didn't change a diaper until the day we were leaving the hospital, which was about four days.
Every night James gets up when his little girl BEGINS to wake up. It takes her mommy until she begins to cry to hear her, but not Mr. Pendleton. He is there at the first coo.
He honorably holds the Priesthood. One night during our stay, a nurse came over the intercom asking if there was a Priesthood holder able to help give a blessing to a patient in the ICU. James handed me our little one and headed to the ICU. This is one of the greatest blessings in my life. Thank you sweetheart. Whats the priesthood? check out this website.
James loves to cuddle and rock his little girl. Also, since he has become a dad, he is more willing to snuggle up to me as well. Man, I love that!

These are just a few things I was pondering on... Sorry for the mushy parts. I just had a baby and my hormones are still kinda out of whack.

PS I love you, Mr. Pendleton.